The Court of Appeal of Rome, with decree n. 2/2020, penalizes the "rigid" approach adopted by many Courts, which in many cases has led to multiple negative results primarily for minors. Therefore, rather than reiterating in a provisional escalation provisions that prove harmful to the minor, it is necessary to patiently continue to try other paths, but first of all it is necessary that there is a correct balance, in the point of modification of the placement of the minor, between the expected benefits and the possible prejudice, given that it is part of the notions of common experience that the forced removal of the child from the affections stable for him can only result in concrete deleterious and must be decided only in the face of serious facts and a thorough investigation.